Collaborative family law is an out of court option for resolving issues relating to divorce or separation in a constructive and amicable way. The collaborative approach is an amicable process in which you and your former partner work through issues to find reasonable solutions to various issues with the support of your solicitors and if necessary, other professionals such as accountants, tax specialists.

How does collaborative family law work?

Our specially trained collaborative lawyers are here to help support and advise you throughout the entire process.

It is a relatively simple process which involves:

  • Working together: you and your former partner both committing to resolve your case collaboratively
  • Instructing separate lawyers: Instructing separate collaborative lawyers to represent you
  • Attending face to face meetings: Reaching settlement during a series of face to face meetings involving you, your former partner and your collaborative lawyer
  • Reaching a legally binding agreement: If an agreement is reached, it can be formalised into a court order or separation agreement.
  • Avoiding court: You and your former partner make a commitment not to enter court proceedings. If collaborative law is unsuccessful, you will both need to instruct a new family lawyer to commence court proceedings

Why choose collaborative family law?

Collaborative family law can be particularly beneficial if:

  • You and your former partner want to find a fair solution together
  • You are willing to engage in open, productive discussions
  • You want to reduce conflict and maintain a positive relationship, especially if children are involved
  • You prefer a faster, more cost-effective alternative to court

Why choose Trethowans for collaborative family law?

At Trethowans, our experienced collaborative lawyers are here to help support and advise you throughout your separation. Our team is highly trained in collaborative family law and will guide you through every step of the process.

Book your free initial consultation today. Call us on 0800 2800 421 or contact us here to speak with one of our collaborative family law specialists.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • There are many benefits to choosing a collaborative approach to separation, including:

     

    • Avoiding the financial and emotional turmoil of court proceedings.
    • You and your partner retain control over your own outcomes.
    • All matters are discussed around a table – no letters going back and forth between parties.
    • Independent third-party specialists can attend.
    • If you have children, it helps to begin your post-separation relationship on good terms.
    • Professional collaborative lawyers help you to communicate effectively.
  • Yes. When you choose collaborative law, you and your partner will each have legal representation but you can also involve independent third-party specialists, such as financial advisors and therapists, to help guide and advise. It is a bespoke service which, unlike Court proceedings, can be tailored to suit your specific needs.

  • Mediation involves settling issues surrounding separation with the help of a single, independent and impartial third party known as a mediator. A mediator will always be specially trained in dispute resolution but they are not always lawyers and cannot provide legal advice to you as their role is neutral. When you choose collaborative law you and your partner will have your own solicitor to look after your interests throughout the discussions.

  • As collaborative law is about finding solutions to issues in a positive and peaceful way, it is the preferred way for many to resolve child-related issues. It helps set the foundation for a calm and constructive post-separation parenting relationship.

  • Separation is a complex and often highly stressful and emotional process, which is why sometimes satisfactory outcomes for both parties cannot be agreed upon when using a collaborative approach. If this happens, proceedings will need to go to court. The lawyers who represented you throughout the collaboration are unable to act for you any further. It is this commitment by all parties which is what makes collaborative law so effective.

  • We are a team of highly trained collaborative law solicitors who are here to help support and advise you throughout your separation. To learn more or to book your free 30-minute consultation, contact us today by calling 0800 2800 421 or by completing and our online form.

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